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you don't have to look good for peopleyou don't have to be perfect just because other people want. you to be perfectif your soul is perfect from with in that's all right this is all what you want.this is all. what you need to be our society has madevery we ird very weird kind of norms to look perfect and great for menit's different for women it's different.

we think too much about what people say we listen to ourselves too little you know. what makes you perfect when you make someone smile you know what makes you perfect when you try to do something good for the people around you you know what makes you perfect.

when you feel some one's painand how beautiful pain is that it connects you with people no other medium can connect you withothers but pain that's. why i always saythat i'm in pain and that's the blessingin disguise for meif you think that your life is hard andyou're giving up on that because youthink your life is unfairthink againbecause

 when you think that way you arebeing unfair to your own self when you share. your story and it doesn't make youcrythat means you have healedthe real happiness doesn't lie insuccessmoneyfameit lies withinreal happiness liesin gratitude i believe in

 the power ofwordsmany people speak before they think buti know the value of words the words canmake you break you they can heal your soul 

they can damage you forever so i always try to use the positive words in my life wher ever i go they call it adversity i call it  port unity they call it weakness i call it strength they call me disabled i call my self differently able 

they see my disabilityi see my abilitythere are some incidentsthat happen in your life and thoseincidents are so strongthat they change your dna thoseincidents or accidents are so strongthat they break 

you physically they deform your body but they trans for my our soul those in cidents break you deform you but they mold you into the best versionof you made people realize thatsometimesproblems are not too bigwe are too smallbecause we cannot handle them we alwaysexpect ease from life 

inspirational quotes on life

 we have this amazing fantasy about life this is how things should work this is my plan itshould go as per my plan if that doesn't happenwe give up so my dear friends let me tell you one thingi never wanted to be on the wheel chair never thought of being on the wheelchairi was always aspiring to do biggerthings but had no idea that for that ihave to pay the price to be 

where i amtodayit's a very heavy price this life is a test and a trial andtests our trialsare never supposed to be easy so whenyou are expecting ease from lifeand life gives you lemons then you makethe lemonade and

 then do not blame lifefor that because you were expecting easefrom a trialtrials make you a stronger better personit is okay to be scaredit is okay to cryeverything is okay but giving up shouldnot be an option 

they always say that failure is not anoption failure should be an option because when you fail you get up and then you fail and thenyou get up and that keeps you goingthat's how humans are strong failure isan option should be an option but giving up is notnever we have

 this thing in mind we callit perfectionwe want everything perfect we wantourselves to be perfect there is this image in our head about everythingperfect life perfect relationshipsperfect career perfect amount of money

that we need to earn no matter whatnothing is perfect in this worldwe all are perfectly game perfect andthat is perfectly all rightthat's all right we were sent here notto become the perfect peoplethose people who tell you how to lookperfect even those people are im perfecttrying to fight this fear of looking imperfectin 

all those imperfectionsyou have to listen to your heartwe are all in pursuit of something inlifesome people chase famesome people long to have more and moremoneysome people wish to live a life with endless joyand some peopl ecrave to have peace and contentment in their heartbut somehow or the otherwe are all in pursuit of some thing and 

in this pursuitwe tend to forget to celebrate what we have in this very momentthis beautiful gift of lifei received so many messagesso much love from all of you and so many prayersi also hear people saying that we want money but walk againwe wish and pray that you walk somedayyou standwith your family and friends come and 

i look at them but deep inside i ask my selfis this something that i truly wish forto be honest because i have accepted myself the way iami have made peace with the reality that this wheelchair is my reality it's thepart of my body now and i'm totally finewith it you must have heard a word ormaybe 

you must have read it somewheredisabilityor a person with disability being a wheelchair user my selfi don't believe in the word disabilityor a disabled person and i'll tell you why every time i read.this word somewhere orif i hear iti cringe a bitbecause every time if we put the word this with someone'sabilitywe are knowingly or unknowingly questioning their abilitiesyou see 

we live in a world which tendsto celebrate samenessand let's be honestthis world is still trying to figure outhow to accept people who are uniquepeople who are differently ableso when we diss someone's abilitiesit doesn't seem rightit doesn't sound politeit doesn't sound respectfulso this word disability or

 a person with disability does not exist in my dictionary let's delete it from our dictionarieslet's change.the narrativenow is the time every step that i take in.my wheelchair and every word that i will sayit's going to pave a path for those who want to do something in life people who have 

the courage and resilienceto face the adversityand alsoit's going to pave.the path for those who are ambitiouslife is a trialevery time you realize that i was 18 years old.when i got marriedand this thing i'm sharing for 

the veryfirst time on an international level iwas 18 years old.when i got married i belonged to a very conservative family a beloved family.where good daughters never say known to their parents.my father wanted me to get married and all i said was if that makes you happy

i'll say yes and of courseit was never a happy marriagejust about after two years of gettingmarriedabout nine years agoi met a car accident some how.my husbandfell asleepand the car fell in the ditchhe managed to jump out saved himself i'm happy for himbut

 i stayed inside the carand i sustained a lot of injuries.the list is a bit long don't get scared i'm perfectly fine now radius ulna of my right arm.we refract uredthe wrist was fracturedshoulder bone and collarbone werefractured.my whole rib cage got fractured andbecause of the rib cage injury lungs and liver. were badly in juredi couldn't brea the i lost urine and bowel control that'swhy i have to wear the bag wherever i gobut that in jury

 that changed me and my life completely as a person and my perception towards living.my life was the spine injury three vertebrae of my backbone were completely crushed and i got paralyzed for the rest of my life one day doctor came to meand he said well i heard that you want to be an artist but you ended up being a house wife i have a bad news for you won't be able to paint 

again because your wrist and your arm are sodeformed you won't be able to hold thepen againand i stayed quietnext day doctor came to me and saidyour spine injury is so badyou won't be able to walk againi took a deep breathand i said it's all rightthe red state doctor came to me and saidbecause of your spine injury and thefixation that you have in your backyou won't be able to give birth to achild againthat day

 i was devastatedi still rememberi asked my motherwhy meand that is where i started to questionmy existence why am i even alivewhat's the point of livingi cannot walk i cannot paint fine icannot be a motherand we have this thing in our headsbeing women that we are incompletewithouthaving childreni am going to be an incomplete woman forthe rest of my life what's the pointpeople are scared 

they think i will getdivorcedwhat is going to happen to mewhy me why am ialive we all try to chase this tunnel weall do this because we see light in theend of the tunnel which keeps us goingmy dear friends in my situation therewas a tunnelthat i had to roll on but there was nolightand that iswhere i realized that the words have thepower to heal the soulmy mother said to methis too shall passgod has a greater plan for you i don'tknow what it isbut he surely hasi was dischargedand i went back 

homeand i went back home and i realized thati have developed a lot of pressureulcers on my back and on my hip bone iwas unable to sitthere were a lot of infections in mybody a lot of allergies so doctorswanted me to lie down on the bedstraightfor not six monthsfor not one yearfor two yearsi was bedriddenconfined in 

that one roomlooking outside thewindow listening to the birds chirpingand thinking maybe there will be a timewhen we'll be going out with the familyand enjoying the naturethat was the time where i realizedhow lucky people arebut 

they don't realize there are always turning points in yourlifethere was a rebirth day that icelebratedafter two years and two and a half months when i was able to sit on a wheelchairthat was the day when i had the rebirthi was a completely different person istill remember the day i sat on thewheelchair for 

the first time knowingthat i'm never going to leave thiskno wing that i won't be able to walk forthe rest of my life saw myself in the mirror and i talk edto my self and i still remember what i saidi cannot wait for a miracle to come and make me walk cannot sit in

 the corner of the room cry ing cribbing and begging for mercy because nobody has time so i have to accept myself the way i am the soonerthe better and that day i decided that i'm going to live life for my selfi am not going tobe that perfect person for someone i am just going to take this moment and iwill make it perfect for 

my self and you know how it all began that day i decided that i'm going to fight my fears we all have fears fear of unknown fear of known fear of losing people fear of losing help money we want to excel in career we want to be come famous we want to get money we are scared all the time so

 i wrote down one by one all thosefearsand i decided that i'm going to overcomethese fears one at a time you know whenyou end up being on the wheelchairwhat's the most painful thingthat's another fear that people on thewheelchair the people who aredifferently able have in their heartsbut they never share i'll share thatwith youthe lack of acceptancepeople think that they 

will not beaccepted by other people because wein the world of perfect people areimperfect you all are thriving in yourcareers you have bigger dreams andaspirations in life always remember onething on the road to successthere is always wenot medo not think that you alone can 

achieve things not here is always another person who is standing behind you maybe not coming on the forefront but behind you praying for you and supporting you never lose that person never when you think 

your glass is half empty come on your glass is half fullit's all in here and here there are so many people in the world who are dreaming to live a life that you are living right now you have no idea embrace each and every breath that you are taking celebrate your life live it don't die before your death we all die we live this one routine of a day for 75 years and we call it life no that's not life if 

you're still thinking why you have been sent here if you're still juggling with the concept of why you are here you haven't lived yetyou work hard you make moneyyou do it for yourself that's not lifeyou go out you seek for people who needyour help you make their lives betteryou become that sponge which can absorball the negativity and you become thatperson who can emitbeautiful positive vibes and when yourealize that you have changed someone'slife and because of youthis person didn't give upthat is the daywhen 

you livealwayswe were talking about gratitudewhy i smile all the timei cry all night when nobody sees mebecause i'm a human and i have to keepthe balanceand i smile all day because i know thatif i will smilei can make people smile that keeps megoing be grateful for what you haveand you will always always end up havingmorebut if you'll cry and if you'll forthe little things that you don't have orthe things that you have lostyou will never ever have enoughsometimes we are too busy thinking aboutthe things that 

we don't have that weforget to cherish the blessings that wehave i'm not saying that i'm not healthyand that makes   meunluckybut yesit is hardit is hard when i say that i cannot walkit is hard to say when i wear this bagit hurtsbut i have to keep going because nevergiving upis 

the way to livealwayslive your life fullyaccept yourself the way you are be kindto yourselfbe kind to yourself i'll repeat be kindto yourself and only then you can bekind to otherslove yourself and spread that lovelife will be hard there will be turmoilsthere will be trials but that will onlymake you strongernever give upt he real happinessdoesn't lie in money or successor fame 

i have this all i never wanted thisreal happiness liesin gratitude so be grateful be alive and live everymoment today just because i'm in pain and i'm on the wheel chairi work for childrenbeing the head of csr for a companywe conduct medical camps in far-flung areas of  whereso many kids die because they don't 

havemedical facilitiesand i personally believe just becausethey cannot afford to live doesn't meanwe'll let them dieso we give them money we give themmedical treatmentwe try to heal theirwoundsphysical and emotionaland i also work forthe beautiful peoplewe call them third genderthe transgender community of you know what connects me with

 them allmy imperfections when i go and i hugthem they never judge meand this very good friend of mine hername is bijli she calls herselfelectricity and i said are youelectricity she says no i'm lighteningi'm as strong as lightning because wehave very bad power outage so shedoesn't want me to call her electricityso she says i am very strong i amthunder 

i'm lightningshe came to me and the first time ihugged her she saidyou are just like meand i said yes i am like youbecause to people we aresoimperfect so how beautiful theseimperfections are that because of theseimperfections you can connect withpeople then

 why are we all running afterbeing perfectwhat's the point every time i go inpublic i always smileit's always a big toothy smile on myface and people ask me don't you gettired of smiling all the time what's thesecret i always say one thingthat i have stopped worrying about thethings that i have lost

 the people thati've lostthings and people who were meant to bewith me are with meand sometimes some body's absence makeyou a better personcherish their absenceit's always it's always a blessing indisguisei always say that people are so luckythey don't even realize you must bethinkingokay you're lucky in what sense well thebreath that 

you just tookwas a blessingembrace it don't invest yourselfin the wrong people because when youinvest yourself in the wrong peoplethey break you into pieces that torn youapart in such a way that it takes yearsand years to get back togetherand also i'll tell her that while you'rebusy making amazing plans in 

your lifemy dear prepare yourself for worsebecause lifeis so unpredictablejust be prepared we all tend to investourselves in relationships and as i saidif you are doing something right withthe wrong person nothing good will turnoutand deep inside we women are quiteintuitive we know that it's not goinganywhere it's okay to be on your ownyou are stronger than 

you thinkdon't worry about thatand wait for the right person let theright person come to youthere's no rushare you in a good relationship with your self do you love your own companyif you are miserable alonei'm sorryyour partner will be miserable with youso we need to understandthat we need to love our own companyonly then people will love to enjoy ourcompany tooand don't rushwait for the right personbecause 

if it's meant to beit will be who is on social media who'susing facebookeveryonehave you ever put your relationshipstatus complicated my relationship withmyselfbefore i was here was so complicated itwas all aboutpeople it was never about methere was no me anywhereyou seepeople's pleasure

the person who just wants to makeeveryone happy knowingthat's not worth ityou just keep doing it keep doing it andyesyour relationship eventually withyourself becomes complicatedand then nowi don't know where there are peoplearound me or notbut

 i'm me nowi'm more me now time is a beautifulteacherit filters out the extras from your lifeincluding peoplebeing in the wheelchair in 12 years i'vemet three categories of peoplenumber one category is of the people whosee you in the misery in painand they back offthey're likewe are gonewe can't handle 

i respect them for theirhonestythen there is another category of thepeoplewho are not there with you but they justwant to cling on with you all the timethey're so weakthat they try to stay in your shadowliberate yourself from those peoplebecause they are toxic for you don't letthem cling on to youbecause they're not there to help youliberate them liberate yourselfand then there is third categorythese

 beautiful people who are soselflessthat when they see you in painthey stand next to youthey've got your back they don't sharethe limelight they're just there for youthese are your peoplevalue themso yes there are three categories ofpeople

 try to surround yourself withthose who are real and you will feelreal i pity thosewho see their failure in your successyou knowthese criticsthey were once dreamers they just wantedto achieve somethingthat today you havebut they gave up and they startedbecoming jealous of you pray for thembecause 

they're in a lot of pain i'venever claimed to be strong all the timei'm one of those few people who havealways acknowledged vulnerabilitybecause when we are vulnerable we arehumans there are days when i don't feellike getting up in the morning there aredays 

when i don't feel like sitting inthe wheelchair and face the world butthen what i do is like i make sure thati don't sulk in that negativity you seewe're humans and there are days when wefall when we when we break when we failand then there are days when we risewhen we heal ourselves and then 

we tryagain and again and again and we try notto give up and all this journey all thatprocess of falling and getting back updefines our journey and defines who weare i want to be rememberedas an empathsomebody who just didn't say that 

i feelyour pain but i want people to see thatwhen i say thisi mean itand as far as my life story is concernedi don't know how my story will endmaybe it will never endbut yes nowhere in my textthe world will ever read

 i gave uphave you watched tangledtangled rapunzel her journey how shecomes out of confinement for the firsttime she goes out and see the worldawaits heryou know what that songi see the lightit reminds me of the times when i wasbedridden i used to hearthe kids playing outside 

i couldn't seei used to hear thunderclap i couldn'tsee the storms i used to hearrain falling on the ground i couldn'tsee it and i missed it but when i sat inthe wheelchair i stepped out went closeto the nature everything changedwhatever i've been through whatever i'veexperienced all

 the mistakes that i'vemade all the adventures that i'veexperienced in my life have shaped meintothis person that i am today and i'm soblessed and i'mi feel really really honored to havelived that life a life full of childsturmoils pain betrayalssuccess failure andit has shaped me probably into 

the bestversion of me so it's a blessing and iwouldn't want to change even a singlething about my life i think it's notabout dealing with the negative commentsit's about dealing with negativity ingeneral andthe best way to deal with negativity isto avoid it or ignore it i know it's noteasy sometimes i know it hurts youbut thinking of those who are givingthose negative comments 

i really prayfor them because probably theycouldn't achieve what they wanted to andwhen they see you growing and thrivingin lifeit creates more negativity andbitterness in them that's why i say prayfor those who see their failure in yoursuccess it takes a lot of courage ittakes a lot ofenergy to hate someone and

 those whohate people are already living amiserable life so you know we all shouldpray for them and should move on it's ahuge responsibilitytitles likeshe's inspirational or she's the ironladysometimesthese titles weigh you down you know ialways say that just because whateveri'm left with if i'm managing to carryit 

with grace does not mean it's notheavy it is heavyyou know lifehappens every daythere areso many highs and as many lows andsometimes we are not 110but also when people look at me and theycall me an inspiration it's reallyreally overwhelming it's also humblingand i really feel blessed but at thesame time it's really scary 

the best wayto stay positive and to be contented isthe attitude of gratitude that's the keyyou know i read this beautiful quotesomewhere which says that i've neverseena bitter person who is grateful and agrateful person who is bitter so begratefuli know there are times when you don'tfeel like being grateful there are 

timeswhen you want to question why where whenhow but there is always always somethingto be grateful for you know i have lostso much in lifewhat i have gained so faris way beyond what i have lost so everytime when i think of what i havei'm more grateful i'm more contented andi'm more happyso if you really want to be happy and if

you want to live a fulfilled life makesure that your heart is full of crap iremember those remarks those remarkshave left scars on my soul and it'sreally hard to heal themsothose remarks had two different extremesthe first extreme was i heard peoplesaying oh she's too pretty to be in thewheelchair and 

the other extreme was ohshe must have done something wrong andthat's her punishment that's why sheended up in the wheelchair for the restof her life you know and those werereally painful remarks even now whenpeople ask me that 

when we look atsomeone who is differently abled whatshould we sayhow are we supposed to talk to them andi always tell themwhy is it important to say something allthe timecan we just don't stare at them can wejust look at 

them and smile and move oni think that's the best way to do itlet's practice silence morebecause when we speakwe probably don'tdon't think and i have made peace withthe fact that most of 

the people don'tthink before they speak so yes thoseremarks were hurtful they still are butin last 12 years i've learned to be morepatient and more forgiving betrayalitself is very painful and 

when peoplehide their betrayalthat hurts even morebutif you have experienced betrayal in lifewe all have al.i would like to say isthat look at yourself in the mirror andtell yourself that you certainly deservebetter so just straighten your crown you.